The Perks of Being Sober

As I often do, I write half blogs and get distracted and forget about them. This was written at the end of 2025, reflecting on the year and seasons of change. I haven’t been writing as much lately, and that’s simply because I’ve been out living my life, in the best way. So I present to you my year end reflection, two months late, embellished and tweaked by the experiences of the first two months of 2026. What a wild year to reflect on. I settled into Austin and life as Cerby’

What I'm Listening to: My word of this year is pleasure. As I was perusing https://dreamymoons.com.au/ and shopping for my new year planner, I came across the Aphrodite journal. It got me thinking how disconnecting from my body I become when I’m anxious or unregulated. I can’t say I ever really learned to be connected to my body, with the repressed queer religious upbringing that we don’t have to get into today. It’s already expensive (but worth it) shipping these journals f

I think I was always destined to have a blog. My dad did website design for work essentially, and created a blog for his daughters to post pictures of their dog. Here is a glimpse into the quality content you would. have found on gingerilla/.com back in 2008. I think we would literally just go and post photos of Ginger, like that was really it. I guess I have always loved unnecessary over sharing on the internet. Riveting content. I know. I think if you told little Ken that I