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One and Done Healing
I have always had a very specific vision of what I want in a planner/journal. I want something that has space for collages and writing,...
Jun 73 min read


Anti Consumption Behaviors
I don't know if I know anyone that is thriving, so to speak, these days. The state of the world feels increasingly hopeless, and it feels...
May 16 min read


Grief Pop
The move was a lot harder than I ever could have anticipated. These last few months have been cruel to me. More on that soon, but it all...
Mar 302 min read


Cerb
Mister sir needs his own introductory post. He has a bunch of names and nicknames. The shelter called him Cerby, short for Cerberus,...
Jan 263 min read


Getting old sucks
12/22/24 Don’t ask me what I was thinking when I adopted a senior dog. The reality is that I wasn’t thinking, I was drinking and I didn’t...
Jan 253 min read


Ken's Guide to Surviving Your First wlw Breakup
I don’t think this needs any other introduction. Scream, grieve, mourn. Go no contact. The basics. Listen to sad music and watch sad...
Oct 15, 20242 min read


sapphic summer, french fall 23
I caught the travel bug young, and it kinda ate me alive for a while. I feel so privileged that I have been able to see so much of the...
Oct 2, 20244 min read


Girlhood and Purity Culture
Thank you to everyone who gave me feedback or had a conversation about these topics with me. I’m grateful for the perspectives and...
Sep 24, 20245 min read


Becoming Little Bird
A month ago, a mourning dove created a nest in a hanging planter outside my apartment. I had coffee with her the next day. It felt like...
Aug 26, 20243 min read


I made a mistake
I’ll be the first to admit it: I made a mistake, or a series of mistakes. We have so much to talk about, I don’t even know where to...
Aug 13, 20242 min read


710 days sober, 0 antidepressants
The long awaited, highly requested blog about my depression treatment, TMS, that I went through last summer. Sometimes I want to talk...
Nov 21, 20234 min read


a reflection on working in nightlife
One of the hardest parts of sobriety has been work. It's ridiculous that I chose to spend the first few years of my sobriety working in a...
Nov 3, 20232 min read


A letter to an old friend
It’s been years since we’ve talked. I still see your posts from time to time. I truly hope you are doing as well as it seems. I think...
Jun 8, 20232 min read


The Rehab Diaries pt 4
Day 25 One more Saturday left. No more Fridays. So close. I’m so ready. The techs are all still frustrated about the food thing but all I...
May 24, 20233 min read


The Rehab Diaries pt 3
Day 17 We played Cards Against Humanity in group today and watched Inside Out. They’ve planned a beach clean up day for us, but it’s...
Apr 26, 20234 min read
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