Mister sir needs his own introductory post. He has a bunch of names and nicknames. The shelter called him Cerby, short for Cerberus,...

12/22/24 Don’t ask me what I was thinking when I adopted a senior dog. The reality is that I wasn’t thinking, I was drinking and I didn’t...

I don’t think this needs any other introduction.  Scream, grieve, mourn. Go no contact. The basics. Listen to sad music and watch sad...

I caught the travel bug young, and it kinda ate me alive for a while. I feel so privileged that I have been able to see so much of the...

Thank you to everyone who gave me feedback or had a conversation about these topics with me. I’m grateful for the perspectives and...

A month ago, a mourning dove created a nest in a hanging planter outside my apartment. I had coffee with her the next day. It felt like...

I’ll be the first to admit it: I made a mistake, or a series of mistakes. We have so much to talk about, I don’t even know where to...

The long awaited, highly requested blog about my depression treatment, TMS, that I went through last summer. Sometimes I want to talk...

One of the hardest parts of sobriety has been work. It's ridiculous that I chose to spend the first few years of my sobriety working in a...

It’s been years since we’ve talked. I still see your posts from time to time. I truly hope you are doing as well as it seems. I think...

Day 25 One more Saturday left. No more Fridays. So close. I’m so ready. The techs are all still frustrated about the food thing but all I...

Day 17 We played Cards Against Humanity in group today and watched Inside Out. They’ve planned a beach clean up day for us, but it’s...

Day 6 Everyone had someone drop them off so every doctor asks me who dropped me off. It’s uncomfortable when I tell them no one. When I...

Day 1 They said they could accommodate vegan meals… not really. All I could eat for breakfast was potatoes so I was super hungry this...

As with most big changes, heartbreak was the solidifying catalyst to create this blog. I wanted him to be this beautiful experience where...